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In the tradition of The Sociopath Next Door, clinical psychologist Joseph Burgo’s The Narcissist You Know is a “clear, easily digestible” (Kirkus Reviews) guide to help you identify, disarm, and coexist with extreme narcissists.

In today’s social media and selfie-obsessed culture, we are living in an age of narcissism—and a society that often celebrates this potentially harmful trait rather than understanding it as a psychological disorder. Scientists are beginning to learn that narcissism exists on a spectrum—much like autism—and most of us exhibit some mild narcissistic tendencies. But one in twenty people fall into a category the author refers to as Extreme Narcissism, in which these self-absorbed characteristics result in destructive behavior that harms not only the individual but everyone around them, including friends, family, and coworkers.

With more than thirty years of experience studying personality disorders and treating extreme narcissists, Dr. Joseph Burgo has developed a useful guidebook to help you “spot narcissists out there in the wild” (Glamour) and then understand and manage the narcissistic personalities in your own life. Relying on detailed profiles, vignettes from the author’s practice, and celebrity biographies, The Narcissist You Know offers easy-to-understand tools and solutions you can use to defuse hostile situations and survive assaults on your self-esteem should you ever find yourself in an extreme narcissist’s orbit.

10 reviews for The Narcissist You Know: Defending Yourself Against Extreme Narcissists

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    Amazon Customer
    November 5, 2024
    Game changer. A must read.
    Dr Burgo really delivers here. It's easy to grasp the concepts, but if you are someone that has taken a long time in life to recognise narcissists aro...More
    Dr Burgo really delivers here. It's easy to grasp the concepts, but if you are someone that has taken a long time in life to recognise narcissists around you, after reading this, you will be unable to 'unsee' them. Suddenly everything makes sense. A powerful guide that is triggering in parts and continues to teach after you have finished the pages. I wish it came with a companion book on healing and being a grey rock, but being given the gift of understanding narcissists and their motivations is a very powerful tool in itself. I even recognised parts of myself here too. One of the things I love most is that it covers mosts types of relationship you might have or people you may come across, where other books tend to centre only on couples. This book is for everyone. I have recommended this to friends who have been similarly triggered while reading and had to pop it down for a break, and also felt immensely empowered to go forward after reading. It's useful to have a support network as you uncover concepts and 'The Narcissist you Know' as a first timer in these pages. I appreciate this book and Dr Burgo so much.
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    Michelle Johnson
    May 14, 2024
    Great book on Narcissism
    I’ve read a lot of books on the topic and this one really puts it into perspective. It’s easy to place blame and point the finger at someone else, but...More
    I’ve read a lot of books on the topic and this one really puts it into perspective. It’s easy to place blame and point the finger at someone else, but wherever you point the finger, there’s always two pointing back at you. Narcissism isn’t intentional at first so it’s helpful to remember that. Learning this information takes time and self reflection and it’s all worth it.
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    Elle
    December 28, 2023
    Must read
    A must read book! A book in easy to understand language with real life and relatable experiences.It gave me such an insight about how and why my colle...More
    A must read book! A book in easy to understand language with real life and relatable experiences.
    It gave me such an insight about how and why my colleagues behave the way they do. Why it sometimes feel that some colleagues are stuck being teenagers.
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    Alaster Grey
    July 22, 2023
    Splendid, empathetic and clear
    This book details a continuum of narcissistic behavior as a natural (but antisocial) response to pain. When most talk about narcissists makes them out...More
    This book details a continuum of narcissistic behavior as a natural (but antisocial) response to pain. When most talk about narcissists makes them out to be incomprehensible and fully inhuman, this book walks a nuanced and thoughtful line between empathy and accountability by tracing a path between normal everyday selfishness and extreme and shocking variants of the same. I cannot underestimate the value of understanding WHY people behave this way is while trying to manage or survive it. Great resource for authors, customer service workers (!!!), and survivors of trauma. I devoured this in 24 breathless hours and I'll probably do it again.
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    Susie
    April 2, 2023
    Great book! Very informative.
    It was highly recommended by a psychiatrist.
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    Andrew Geren
    June 14, 2022
    I loved it!
    This book really gets at the heart of what causes narcissism, which is basically attachment injuries and core shame. I've read several books relating ...More
    This book really gets at the heart of what causes narcissism, which is basically attachment injuries and core shame. I've read several books relating to psychology and this one has been one of my top favorites! It helped me to understand that I am basically a narcissist at heart, who has been struggling to keep my head above water without resorting to narcissistic behaviors. Now that I understand why, I have addressed and challenged the underlying pathologies that protect me from core shame, rather than allowing me to address and overcome my core shame. Also, the book is written in such a way where everything is simple to understand. Thank you, Dr. Burgo!
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    Alexander Shabelnikov
    April 18, 2021
    Loved it!
    Very practical and to the point, not overspent on professional jargon, which gives it a clear sense of structure, while leaving a lot of room for flex...More
    Very practical and to the point, not overspent on professional jargon, which gives it a clear sense of structure, while leaving a lot of room for flexible assessment of the ‘spectrum’ where yours, your partner’s, your parent’s and your children’s narcissistic traits exist. A lot to think and reflect upon reading! Great book for everyone who is interested to understand yourself better.
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    DN
    June 30, 2020
    Wow! This book is good!
    Wow, this book is good! I have read a lot of books on Narcissism but none like this. The marvel of Dr. Burgo's insight! I have 3 of his non-fiction...More
    Wow, this book is good! I have read a lot of books on Narcissism but none like this. The marvel of Dr. Burgo's insight! I have 3 of his non-fiction books. Reading them is like receiving gifts. Hope to see more of his books in the future.
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    s. davis
    May 8, 2020
    A Really Good Book
    Well written and informative. Entertaining read about an interesting subject.
    Arrived on time and in great condition
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    LisPaul
    February 14, 2020
    Very informative
    Great read, a new perspective
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